What Your Higher Self Wants You to Know Now ?
Hello Cool-Girls ! I wanted to talk to you today about my favorite tool when it comes to personal development: the Higher Self. First of all, what is the “Higher Self” ? Just another far-fetched idea sold by the new spiritual gurus ? Not exactly… here, there’s nothing to sell you,just a free tool available to anyone.
1. How to meet your higher self first ?
You just need calm and your visualization skills for this. I’m going to ask you to sit down and imagine the best version of yourself. I’m not talking about imagining external things like a well-stocked bank account or a dream wardrobe. Imagine your future self, the you who has overcome challenges with flying colors and gained all that life experience. Imagine their confidence and the aura they radiate. The wisdom they’ve acquired and help them every day.
Today, that person is going to become your best tool for moving forward. Today, that person and you become one. When you have a challenge to overcome or simply a worry, you will call on your Higher Self. What would my future self do ? What would they say to me ?
2. Your Higher Self would tell you to stop worrying
Your HS (Higher Self) would tell you to stop worrying, worrying is a double punishment ! That catastrophic scenario you imagine will probably never happen, yet you’ve already experienced the emotional burden of it. So, are you losing in every case ? Instead of worrying, ask yourself: what if everything went well ?
In the past, things tend to work out, so there’s no reason they won’t this time. And when things did go wrong, it led you to where you are now. Of course,I’m not telling you to just go with the flow day by day plan, take action and then let go. If it’s meant to be, it will work out.
3. You have no idea what is coming for you
Right now you are holding on so tightly to what you think you deserve, believing that nothing better could come close. Meanwhile, your HS is watching you, it knows what awaits you in your future, something far greater than your wildest dreams. The only thing standing between you and that future is your ability to let go of the things that are not meant for you. Sometimes we get so stuck in this energy of lack that we settle for crumbs when we could have the whole baguette. And I’m sure you already have proof of this. Remember the last time you held onto something that didn’t work out and was replaced by something better ? See ?
Now, I’m going to ask you to visualize everything you want in your life… these are your standards. Anything that doesn’t meet this standard or won’t help you reach it has no place in your life.
4. Start to trust your gut
Women have endured significant harm under patriarchy. In response to this persistent threat, many may have developed a heightened sense of pattern recognition (what’s often described as gut instinct) as a means of navigating unsafe environments. Your gut is the compass that will guide you throughout your life. Yes, it can sometimes go crazy, especially because of external disturbances, but it will always be there. Normally, when something is off, we feel it. Our gut feeling tells us. We may not have material proof, but we know something is wrong: a tone of voice, a phrase, a gesture. These elements remind us of a possibly negative past situation.
You have to trust your gut and you’ll see with life experiences and emotional management that this compass becomes more and more accurate. So, at first, there may be a margin of error, give yourself time to think about it and get a second hint. But don’t wait for a third, fourth, fifth…
5. Stop protecting people at the cost of your own peace
Your peace is the most valuable thing you have in life; if it’s compromised, you won’t be able to grow. You have to protect it at all costs and you are not selfish for doing so. Think of your peace like breathing or eating, it’s part of your needs. Along your path, your peace may be shaken by life’s ups and downs but also by people. Your HS wants to tell you that it’s not insignificant. When someone repeats a pattern over and over (especially active harm) you need to stop giving them the benefit of the doubt.
People know exactly what they’re doing; they are far from stupid. They think you will give up your peace again and again (like in the past) to accommodate them. On this earth, we all have the same tools at our disposal to rise. Some refuse to work on themselves because they think it doesn’t concern them or expect someone else to bear the burden for them.
If you want better for yourself and fulfilling relationships, you need to be aware of this reality. You are not here to do other people’s emotional work. Tolerating disrespect and repeated harm from unhealed people can deeply damage your well-being. You are deeply and permanently damaging your nervous system. You are abandoning yourself… and training yourself to accept harm from future people. So wake up.
