Hello Everyone ! If you are here it is probably because you’ve seen all over TikTok about the divine feminine energy. But how to tap into your divine feminine energy ? In my last article I explained why you probably have too much masculine energy and what is divine feminine energy.
As a disclaimer I wanted to remind you that the divine feminine energy is not strictly associated to male or female genders. It is just a synonym of the Yin energy, that you can find in the taoist philosophy. We can observe a lack of feminine energy traits in both men and women because masculine energy traits such as productivity are more valued in capitalism.
This phenomenon has dramatic consequences as this global energy imbalance of masculine and feminine energies a potential contributing factor of many social problems, including declining mental health, toxic work cultures, increased greed, criminality, and a lack of empathy.
1. Do you have unbalance feminine energy (YIN) ?
a. Excess of feminine energy
Before you wonder how to tap into your feminine energy, it’s important to remember that you can also suffer from an excess of it. In Taoist philosophy, an imbalance of feminine energy can manifest in both the body and mind.
Body symptoms:(If you experience any concerning symptoms, be sure to see your doctor before making any assumptions)
- Upper body health problems
- Slowdown of bodily functions
- Circulatory problems
- Slow digestion
- Poor appetite
- Cysts
- Edema
- Pale skin
- Feeling Cold
- Hypersomnia (excessive sleepiness)
Mind symptoms:
- Lassitude
- Poor boundaries
- Overly protective or sheltering
- Codependency
- Victim mentality
- Excessive empathy
- Excessive forgiveness
- Lack of purpose
b. A lack of feminine energy
Body symptoms:(If you experience any concerning symptoms, be sure to see your doctor before making any assumptions)
- Burnout
- Exhaustion
- Chronic Stress
- Lack of Desire
- Emotional Numbness
- Insomnia
- Night Sweats
- Dry Mouth
- Anxiety
Mind symptoms:
- Controlling behavior
- Frequent power struggles at work
- Always in action mode
- Insistence on self-reliance
- Refusal to accept help
- Lack of intuition
- Emotional unavailability
- Lack of emotional intelligence
- Lack of creativity
Feminine energy exists on a spectrum. This means you can experience both signs of excess and deficiency at the same time. While you develop your feminine energy, you’ll likely discover some inherent strengths and areas that require more nurturing.
2. How to tap into your feminine energy ?
a. Embodying the Yin in the Workplace
No need to quit your job ! The most logical way to add more feminine energy into the world is to value feminine energy traits into the workplace. What’s interesting is that it is exactly what the corporate world needs to save many problems such as: burnout, toxic management, high turnover, lack of motivation at work, increase of sick leaves..
If you have a company, you are a manager or have any influence in the workplace this message is for you ! You can embody the yin the workplace in many ways:
- Challenge the patriarchal notion that feminine energy has no place in the professional world
- Bring gentleness and empathy to your management style
- Cultivate emotional intelligence for effective leadership
- Practice active listening and empathy with your team
- Promote creative minds
- Opt for a collaborative management style
- Learn to delegate
- Get rid of micro-management
b. Finding a Yin-Aligned Career
- Consider professions that align with compassion, emotional intelligence, calmness, and collaboration, such as teaching, medecine, psychology, management, human resources, training, healthcare, consulting, sales, or coaching.
- Explore careers that tap into creativity and intuition, such as writing, architecture, design, blogging, art, photography, craftsmanship, entrepreneurship, engineering, investigation, or negotiation.
c. Nurture your Yin during your Free Time
- Reduce mental clutter:
- Engage in self-care practices like meditation, relaxation techniques, and dedicated rest periods.
- Make time for activities like reading, journaling, or spending time in nature.
- Awaken your sensuality:
- Explore dance, yoga, or other movement practices that promote balance between feminine fluidity and masculine strength.
- Embrace letting go:
- Practice mindfulness techniques to cultivate a sense of surrender and trust in your intuition.
- Learn to be laid-back and observe:
- Learn to focus your attention on yourself and your feelings instead of chasing
- Ask yourself do I like this person instead of do this person like me
- Get into your receptive energy:
- This one is the hardest when your heart chakra is blocked
- It is about opening your heart to outside opportunities and accept to experience life
- For example you can accept that someone else plan something for you
- Develop your creative side:
- Engage in activities like painting, cooking, home decor, or other creative pursuits.
- Learn to accept help and support:
- Recognize that seeking assistance from your partner is not a sign of weakness but a demonstration of self-awareness and self-care.
- Slow down and savor the present moment:
- Approach tasks with mindfulness and appreciation for the process, rather than rushing to the finish line.
- Engage in acts of kindness and service:
- Volunteer your time, skills, or resources to support causes that align with your values.
Disclaimer
I am not a doctor, I enjoy learning about chinese medicine, this information is for educational purposes. Please consult with a healthcare professional for personalized guidance, especially if you If you experience any concerning body symptoms.
